Grief doesn’t just show up when someone dies. It also arrives quietly in life’s transitions, ruptures, and unmet needs. We grieve lost identities, childhoods we never had, relationships that never became what we hoped for, and dreams deferred by survival.

This kind of grief ambiguous, invisible, and often unspoken can be just as heavy. But because it doesn’t follow the scripts of "acceptable loss," it’s rarely named, let alone validated.

In therapy, we make space for all kinds of grief. The grief of becoming someone new. The grief of setting boundaries and losing connection. The grief of systems that failed us. The grief we inherited from our ancestors.

Naming grief is a powerful act. It says: this mattered. I matter. And it opens the door to ritual, to release, and to redefining our relationship with loss.
You deserve space to mourn not just who or what you lost, but also what you never received and deeply needed. Your grief is valid, and your healing is not measured by how quickly you move on, but how gently you return to yourself.

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Meet Javonna Arriaga

 
Javonna was born on Turtle Island. Her ancestors are from Abya Yala and her lineage is from the Moche and Chiriqui tribes. She is the daughter of Heather Miramontes-Garcia who is the daughter of Oscar Arriaga, Afro-Peruvian and Marcia Bishop, European American. She is the daughter of Gerardo Perez, though she honors her father's Panamanian lineage she does not know her father. She has been most directly raised by her mother Heather and grandfather Oscar. Javonna also spent two years in foster care and honors her foster parents Jen and Brad Newton as part of her family as well. Together this community has contributed to Javonna's journey.
Javonna is CIS-gendered, able-bodied, pansexual, and a relationship anarchist. Javonna's first language is English and she is fluent conversationally in Spanish.

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